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Before you bring in kids or more people into your circle, please set deadlines and see if worked out. If not then having separation and see if you/he can handle without each other before you give up totally. There must be some positives that you both have been together for 5+ that to focus on too
My husband has habit of comparing with me every woman around his sister, his colluge.. Finally I have to put foot down tols him whoever you think are great woman in ofc and do every work from home I need to talk to them bas after that there is no further mention and I put foot down with sister in law issue. Told I have nothing to do with her problem and just bcoz she has problem with her in laws does not mean u behave bad with me. Dis not talked about her, on her, with her since then. Littrely happy now
If I had to guess you are both likely young. He may not have had exposure to a good male role model or example and now he's having to figure it out on his own. When I had a similar issue with my ex I set clear expectations and a deadline when improvement needed made for things that were 100% non negotiable. They made some small changes for about a week and then went right back to their old ways. Make sure all along you are discussing what he is doing that bothers you, why, and what he should do differently. Don't just say things like "it really bothers me when you do x" Best of luck to you and I hope it works out, divorce is rough and can be expensive but know that if what they are doing are things you cannot live with and they are unwilling to change that's your last resort.
So he was like that before getting married and you assumed he was going to be different after?
What about your husband?
What about him?