30s & 40s Singles

who remembers the "10 condoms guy" in July24?))

update: it s over. since 1 week ago..
but i am doing OK.
emotionally cannot date now, so will focus on career and gym.
if any man 40+ is in Madri… more

Anyone from Ontario Canada? Specially Durham?

My name's Austin, I'm in Corning New York hoping to find a girl. I'm a good man. I'm not from here. Just moved here a little while ago, looking for a good time

F/ cute / looking for M/ tx

DM me if you are 40 plus female looking for a single male 40 plus in Atlanta!!

I was at a (paid) singles event and some of the men (of course the best looking ones) left early before the event really got under way. Others left immediately after the event (they didn't do the thing of sharing everyone's cont… more

What has been your best first date story?

It’s interesting that women are all about equality. Until it comes time to pay the dinner bill. I just broke things off with a professional woman who earns about as much as I do. She flat out told me … more

Any F in this bowl based in London?? DM should be fine ;-)

M30 here..

Should I reach out? A guy I had gone on 3 dates with asked me to meet back in December, I was really busy with work and travelling to stay with family, so I told him that I couldn't make it but th… more

How to find dates in London? Especially if you are not into dating apps?

M29 here, recently moved to London.

P.S. Hi to all the ladies out there :-) DM if you are in London.

Wheres a place to go to meet women ? tried the online dating sites ithey are all trash and waste of time.

Hi I'm 37 I look twenty something but I am looking for a woman who will be loyal and honest and ride or die I live in Conway AR if you're interested and want to chat hit me up my phone number … more

Am a Nigerian guy, 39yrs old, never married before, Looking for a soulmate in or outside nigeria.

Im 31 F and am in love with a man who has been in a relationship with a woman for 5 years with a kid. They temporarily broke up we meet, hit it off, and I feel in love over time . He left me months la… more

Ladies, need your advice.

How do you break up with someone in the nicest way possible after you have been intimate with them?

While the sex was great, I'm not physically attracted to her anymore. She did a nic… more

Single, very beautiful, tall (5'10) 41yr old female property manager in Madison, WI

Single lady here looking for a serious relationship

I was approached by a girl my ex is dating (I assume) on facebook asking red flags 🚩 etc. I don’t really think it’s my position to share. What doesn’t work for me (and trust me it really doesn’t) mig… more

Anyone on Raya and willing to help a girl out with a referral?

Well the time has come for me to graduate this bowl. I appreciate the camaraderie and entertainment that was had. Wish y’all the best!

Anyone attended singles event in Anaheim OC? I think there are several events coming up. How’s the vibe? What’s your take?

Any singles in Atlanta interested in doing a meetup?

If your dating profile tagline could be brutally honest and describe the worst thing about dating you, what would it be?

39M, successful, well educated, single...visiting Boston for the weekend...any ladies want to grab drinks and see where the night takes us?

Ladies, for your own safety and psychological well-being, I highly recommend getting the tea app to see what people are saying about your potential dates.

There are a lot of abusive and dangerous peop… more

Coming up on the latest episode of Dating App Hilarity:

Previous couple weeks: Nice conversation, albeit with a bit of clunky frequency presumably due to the holidays.
Woman yesterday: Asks to have a drink sometime
Me a… more

Is it a red flag for you if someone has virtually no social media presence/is inactive? I have a LinkedIn account by obligation that’s filled out, but all other personal social media accounts I don’t post anythin… more

Have you ever reached out to someone again after ghosting them and things worked out? I know it’s sh*tty behavior so no need to lecture.

Men: Would you rather your gf take you on a hot air balloon ride or to a tour and four-course meal with wine tasting at a winery for your bday? For context, you’re staying at an inn in Napa, and will … more

I now have an amazing boyfriend. What are some guy-approved ways to get him to pop the question? Responses from all welcomed, but I am specifically seeking advice from 45+ yo, conservative men.

Anyone here live in Philly and interested in meeting up this weekend? I’ll be in town to visit the Barnes and explore a little bit.

New red flag observation: They made a “year-in-review” post on their Instagram

New Year Newly Single 33M Fort Wayne Indiana was gonna give it another go with my ex but something is just telling me to move on and cut my losses Happy New Year enjoy yourselves be safe!