I now have an amazing boyfriend. What are some guy-approved ways to get him to pop the question? Responses from all welcomed, but I am specifically seeking advice from 45+ yo, conservative men.

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Interesting question to ask in a <checks notes> Singles bowl.

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How long have you been dating? If enough time has passed, you’re bound to have discussed future plans and a tentative timeline.

After I had been exclusively dating my ex for a few months we had this discussion and were on the same page re moving in together around the one year mark and getting married 2-3 years after that (assuming things progressed well, which they didn’t).

To be clear, we both knew marriage was the end goal from the start but only discussed the timeline once things got more serious.

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‘’…get him to pop the question’’? What does this even mean? Sounds manipulative. Either pop the question yourself or wait patiently for him to.

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When her father brings forth the dowry.

Have you talked about future plans? How long have you been dating? I would specifically state "I would like to be engaged in X months, what is your timeline for engagement/marriage?"

A guy will only pop the question when he's ready and when he wants to marry the person. Many guys will keep a woman in a holding pattern, so it's up to you to find out which camp you are in

Just talk to him about it

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