Should I reach out? A guy I had gone on 3 dates with asked me to meet back in December, I was really busy with work and travelling to stay with family, so I told him that I couldn't make it but that we could chat about it after mid January (once I would be back in the city). That was the last text, he hasn't reached out, I guess he might be dating someone else now, but a part of me would like to continue seeing him. But another knows that a man who shows so little interest is probably not good

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Didn’t even read after “should I reach out” - the answer is yes. Don’t be shy. It’s all good. We’re all human. If he’s not taken, he will appreciate it.

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Why would he reach out to you when you told him that you’re busy and will connect later? Lol. What do you mean he’s shown so little interest?!? wtf is going on? The onus is on you. You dropped the ball. Not him. Reach out.

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Ok so him never agreeing to talk again in January "in writing" does change my opinion a little. I still think there's no harm in reaching out if you're still interested though.

If he wanted to he would

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I don't see the problem if you want to chat mid-Jan like you originally said.

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Or start fresh?

You need to reach out and take a chance. People can be shy too and if they already put themselves out there, the balls in your court.

I don't even want him to chase, just follow up on our conversation, since I sent the last message in early December... I just can interpret he has 0 interest.
During the summer(I was away for a montt) he was texting me daily and proposed to meet as soon as I was back in town. This time his behaviour is the total opposite. Maybe he got fed up of thinks I'm unsuitable for a relationship given the amount of time I spend abroad...

You told him to fck off in December you expected him to reach out?

didn't say that. I said I was really busy and abroad for a few weeks. Also asked him about other things he has going on, showing interest

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i didn't reach out

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