Anyone grew up in a bad neighborhood but made it out?

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🙋🏽‍♀️ And I make sure I go back every chance I get to show the little girls in my old neighborhood that they can do the same thing. Also, I shop at the mom and pops corner store for all my hood favorites. I love my old neighborhood so much I own a house there so I can have a place to stay when I visit.

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I am from the hood in Africa, deep deep hood... I go back every year. Thinking about opening a group home

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I was born and raised in South Central, Los Angeles (no, it’s not South Los Angeles or SoLA) in a single parent home of 7.

I was the youngest of six kids, and I am forever indebted to my mother and brothers who made the sacrifices to keep me on this blessed path I’ve found myself on today. In my hood there were several gangs and overall bad people that could’ve easily been the influence I gravitated towards, but my mom and brothers simply didn’t allow it. To think if they weren’t involved so much in my life I could’ve easily fell under to the hood lifestyle (a couple baby’s mommas, hustlin drugs, etc.)

While I’m forever grateful I made it out, went to college, got my CPA license and am ready to start my own life with my future wife and kids, I can’t help but feel tremendous guilt (to the point where I feel like I don’t deserve what I’ve been blessed with in my life to this point) for my brothers who weren’t so lucky and/or didn’t make the choices I made. By their definition, I’m thriving at the age of 27 and have an even brighter future ahead of me. I wish I could shake off this guilt, but I can’t. There’s not much more I could do to help their cause, but I wish I could.

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