2020 and this first full week of 2021 were the pushes I needed to finally get a therapist. How are y'all holding up?

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I’d say I’m holding up well. I think I need to see a therapist too, so your message has me looking into this. So thank you. I never battled with depression until August of 2018. I’m not sure what triggered, but I made a recovery when I got busy in the spring. I never suffered from depression before this, but 2020 brought another episode. I’ve thought about quitting my job and looking for something else, but I’m going through power through and give therapy a try.

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I’d say I’m not holding up well**

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Yeah, I'm not okay. Powering through, because there's no other choice.

Just thought I'd circle back and share a book my therapist recommended: The Body Keeps the Score.

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