Resigned last week from a job with a horrible manager. In the process learned that the other team member is toxic and poisoning my reputation in front of others behind my back. I am so relieved!

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I just had a very similar situation. I think I developed PTSD as a result

I certainly considered that. I went to employee assistance to get something on record. Let’s say when I resigned the manager was obviously angry and tried to message me on personal channels.

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