Be honest, do you ghost? It's such a norm now, I don't even feel bad when I do it.

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No, it's for cowards and people who have no morals, ethics, and are among bottom tier in relationships....Yes, I feel that strongly and it's not because I'm hurt.

I just find it embarrassing a grown adult cannot summon the courage to at least send a text "this isn't going to work and I don't want to continue."

You can even block them afterwards so you don't see their response or possible call. Ghosting is never appropriate for respectable humans.

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I just don’t follow up

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This. & if they don’t either, then that’s it. If they do, then I’ll tell them I’m not feelin it

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No I don’t ghost. Ghosting is terrible. Just say peace out so I don’t think you died or something. I’m a M so I only see it when F ghost but I think the ladies ghost more than guys from my friend circles.

I’ve shared here before. Someone recently ghosted me after a great last conversation where we were talking about future and next steps. I’ve been all messed up in the head for a week now trying to understand.

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Like chatting without a first date, sure. If we don't click, I don't owe you anything. After a first date, you should at least say that you're not feeling it.

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No, never. Morally I can’t.

I’ve fortunately never been ghosted either.

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Grow up

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Personally I’d rather be ghosted than receive an awkward text explicitly rejecting me lol. I can take a hint, and if I haven’t followed up there’s a good chance I wasn’t into it either. I never ghost other people though bc I understand my opinion isn’t the majority

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A perfectly timed ghost can be more fulfilling than most of the relationships. It can be a work of art.

I've worked at PwC, I'm not surprised at the cowardly behavior frankly.

Yes? If the other person did not even follow up, would that still be considered ghosting? Haha

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