Does it make sense to try to get married before marriage equality is inevitably overturned? Can’t imagine it will survive 4 years with Republicans running all branches of government 🙃

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I think President Trump has larger fish to fry than marraige equalty. The dems are pushing the end of the world. He has said he wantd to make the country strong again. We are currently a bannana republic. Hes going to make good changes for this country. I have no doubt about it.

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I'm wondering same. Been with my partner 15 years and never felt need to marry. But what if we can't later...

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Likely won’t make a difference on a federal level. I would posit that gay marriages will only be recognized by states where it is legal, and the feds will not recognize it.

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This^

More importantly, get your estate planning done. And second parent adoption. This administration won’t look like the first one…

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If you have a good potential spouse lined up, marry them. I don't expect gay marriage to go away, but I imagine it is easier to defend an already granted marriage than get one if it becomes more difficult.

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This is my thought. It existed in several states before being legal federally but my state historically leans red. I am in a happy long term relationship and look forward to getting married, just hoping to avoid any legal hurdles from waiting to plan at our own pace.

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Really? This was the narrative in 2016 when Trump came to office and nothing happened! Don’t get married for my other reason than you wan to fully commit the rest of your life to your person!

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AMC1, are you in the closet?

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Chump, dump, lump, grump, hump.

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