Hi there!!

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I just want to say that I'm queer and married, in a Cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭

Do we have to talk about dating like all the time?

Can't we talk about other stuff? Like promoting THE AGENDA (jk)

No, but FR let's talk about being open and accepted in the workplace? How did you do that? How (un) friendly is the work environment?

Thankyaaaaaaaalll 😘😘😘

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I don’t understand what your point is.

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My point is: let's have some meaningful conversations, all I see here so far is "how's the dating scene etc etc" nothing wrong with that, but we could share the space with other threads, ie how is the atmosphere in your workplace? Do you feel accepted or just tolerated? Are you open or closeted? Etc
I hope this clarifies it.

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Did you just discover social media?

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Honestly, I don’t understand the first sentence. Feels like mental gymnastics.

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Or that OP’s taken a liberty with the minibar!

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For me I open at my first job, AIM Funds, now Invesco. I was young and Nieves and I felt me back, my second job was with a regional bank, and while I hid it in was discovered left company to join one that couldn’t consider my orientation? All that mattered was job I do and that is all that I needed !

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Thank you for your input!!!

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People can share whatever they want… if you are married and not interested in dating posts then don’t read them. No need to hurt peoples feelings.

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Just curious… what kind of “cis-hetero passing relationship 🤭” do you have?

Interesting… so you both present close to your assigned gender at birth but how do you identify?

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