Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

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Meeting people isn’t the problem, it’s being able to take the next steps. The airport is a great place to meet new people but most are paired up. My dream of meeting my dude in 4E has not come true yet. 🫠

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It’s a lot easier for guys at that age to meet girls at social events, bars, volunteer work, etc than vice versa tbh. So it can come into play what gender you’re talking about.

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What about gay men and women? Do any of us have a chance? Lol

Fishbowl 😉

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Lol maybe!

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Volunteering, intramural sports, religious/faith groups

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If you figure it out let me know

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