From Ewa Beach, HI 43/F. He left me for a 50+ year old, sex offender and he's taking care of all her bills while she's currently in jail. But he doesn't know she's a sex offender, he never asked what her charge was he just brushed it off. She doesn't even show any remorse for what she did! Who she did it to, makes it worse! Do I just let this go or what?

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Yes. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

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Yes. Let it go! What she did might be terrible but I don’t think it’s your issue to worry about. You’re better off not wasting your time on this

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Ummmm 🙄 why do you want someone that irrational?

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It's not that I still want him, cuz I don't. It's the fact that we were together for 14 years and I just feel sickened that I wasted so much of my life on such a person, and befriended that woman before I knew who she truly was.

You'll find someone more suitable. It wasn't a waste, just a step on the way to something better.

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He would destroy himself. You can accelerate it.

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Let it go. She must have some other amazing qualities that can compensate her big flaw. You will find your right person.

What did she say? Is it actually dangerous? Then you may have a case. That’s why I don’t remain friends with exes, messy, and broke up with my last boyfriend who remained too friendly with his ex.

I'm so sorry for that but you have to heal up , if people reject or walkaway from they're not meant to be in your life but meant to be part of the story of your life 🧬

That’s wild!!!!

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