In my opinion one of the worse things you could hear from someone when you are dating is ‘I usually don’t talk to someone like you’. It makes it seem like you are just settling for that person.

Which is better. Dating apps or meeting someone in person?

29F, Texas. Willing to relocate to anywhere in usa or Canada. Seeking someone mature, stable, family oriented. Open to chatting to see if its a mutual match.

There's a guy on 29who never shuts up. If you are reading this - be quite already

Actually starting to think I’ll be single forever. The apps go nowhere. How are you guys meeting people right now?

Recently divorced after 10+ yrs (40M, Denver)... Starting to figure out dating again. What age difference is it too cringe to try to date?... 10 yrs younger ok? If you're low 30'sF us a 40M in play?

35 Female NYC, 🥳

Say I had a “friend” who gained 15 Covid lbs but is still on dating apps with old pics. Is that considered catfishing? She’s not overweight, but not fit anymore. Still good looking...she suspects. Is it best to update the pics? Or get on a BBW dating app? Definite fear of rejection at meeting. Thank God I’m asking for a friend because this shits embarrassing to type.

Timma be high and eat hot dogs.

Agree or disagree: devil dogs is only good high. Dog Hause on the otherhand - low key date night and high

Is there such a thing as over texting the person you like?

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

So anyone single 🧐

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

How do you deal with your boyfriend still being friends with someone he slept with before? Kind of bothers me but not sure if it’s normal....

F 🐠 looking for a happy guy?

I am pretty funny tho not too pretty - 30 M NYC

First time dating after a life of work,studies and being a geek

(Any "padosan" fans get the joke abt starting at 30?)

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

What’s a good bar where a single lesbian can mingle with other queer ladies?

Creating my registry, what are some must haves to put on it! Doing Amazon and Target, thanks for the help in advance.

I think this bowl is a great idea but it’s really difficult to foster conversations between other people.. any suggestions on how to do it?

How much does someone's career affect how compatible you think you are with them?

Doggies Daycare...yay or nay?

Friendly reminder that by not taking a side you are, in fact, taking a side

How do vesting schedules typically work for LLCs giving interest to an advisor?

Females - do you typically put your hair in a ponytail or leave it down for an interview?

Anyone going to SoFi's Atlanta members event tomorrow?

Hello All,
Small help please. What is expected salary range for principal consultant (BA role) ?
How much can I expect on top of 25L fix pay? Also what principal consultant role is equivalent of in general terms ?

Anyone work for cybersecurity and infrastructure security agency and want to talk about it

If you have experience with Anaplan and are interested in working at AWS, please DM me. There is a team here in need of some people with Anaplan skills.

If I negotiate my salary and they say no, does that retract my offer. Nothing is in writing as of yet…

Has anyone changed office after your 140 is approved, what’s the process and how did you go about connecting with PPMDs in both the location, is it easy to get done?

What aspects of international development are you most interested in and what plans do you have to make the switch (for those that aren't working in this space yet)?

Where do you buy vintage watches?

Do you ever get stoned before/during work? I had always steered clear during work hours but recently I broke my own rule and wound up writing what felt like some of my best work in months.

What’s the vibe in the Permian? Any worries of pipeline constraint risk?

Anyone ready for NYC gathering?

Recently divorced after 10+ yrs (40M, Denver)... Starting to figure out dating again. What age difference is it too cringe to try to date?... 10 yrs younger ok? If you're low 30'sF us a 40M in play?

Is this an active bowl..Or have the 30s fishes turned 40s already?

Ladies would you take dinner and shoes from me?

Just curious, do people from this bowl still do sexting?

Any M 40+ in Nairobi? The apps here are not it!

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

Has anyone actually found love at work? My best friend started at a new company 6 months ago and she just took an offer somewhere else because she and her senior manager fell for each other. After 6 months she knew it was worth leaving her job for! I've been working at the same place for three years and I went on one date with a guy who didn't even work with me he just worked in the building. What am I doing wrong.

Any F in Minnesota?

Signed up for a matchmaking service a couple months ago after getting tired of the apps. And while I’ve been underwhelmed with their process so far, I finally have my first match date this weekend. Haven’t been on a date since pre-pandemic. And never been on a true blind date like this. Wish me luck.

35 F🐟, Boston, 🙋

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

How to deal with the cuffing season? How to deal with the days post family gathering while being alone?

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Rewatching Brokeback Mountain, which came out 15 years ago (hard to believe that). Anyway, it's still an outstanding, devastating film (and love story) that I think if had been released 10 years later would have easily won best picture and best actor for Heath Ledger.

Feeling a deep void in close human connection after letting go a relationship that was lacking a future (I was interested in something more, he was unsure). Can’t stop thinking of reaching out and need strength to just stay with the loneliness and have hope for the better times. Would appreciate support. It’s been 2 weeks but I feel bouts of extreme sadness and desire to have someone to share my life and days with.