Happy pride!! My name is Hope, and I founded an LGBTQIA+ suicide prevention nonprofit 5 years ago in honor of my best friend who died at 13. Over the last several years we have been building an online professional mentorship platform that connects LGBTAQIA+ young people with experienced LGBTQIA+ mentors in similar fields.

We are beginning to plan for the pilot program in 2025 and I could use some folks who would like to consider being a mentor! Please visit seanslegacy.org/mentorship to express your interest!

I was just asked to relocate to a different city. The move will come with a raise and promotion, but I'm conflicted. I enjoy where I live right now and I like being close to my family. Would love some advice.

Any fishies in MPLS and willing to share AE salary expectations?

Good hours, decent culture but shoddy deals. Where to go from here?

Does anyone here have an idea of BA office? What kind of projects do they generally support from BA?
Is it a direct client facing role?

Are Mastercard, AMEX, Visa - Product based companies??
Also, what would be the best choice for data engineers?

Laterals to Deloitte Cyber from other B4: Can you describe your interview process and what each one entailed? TIA!

If my agency had a dog daycare and a nap room, I’d probably never go home.

I just started a new job and am about to be 36. I want to start a family but I feel like I should be waiting due to this new job. However I don’t want to miss out. I’m thinking about freezing my eggs

I'm working at a startup where I feel like I've spent as much time trying to deal with product issues vs working on roadmap items. I get this is bound to happen in a start up but is this common? I'm not sure what to do. It seems like no one really thought about the architecture or ux as much as they should have in my opinion. I need some advice.

Just had year end discussion. Not at all happy with how it went

Where/ how can I learn Azure?

How does sleep affect your medications effectiveness? Do you feel like you need X hours of sleep for your adderall/vyvanse etc. to work properly?

Switching from Adderall to Ritalin. Anyone who’s taken both have tips for the switch or thoughts on what to expect?

Anyone taking SSRI and Bupropion at the same time for ADHD? Diagnosed as high functioning ADHD with anxiety. Curious to see how this combo has worked for you. Day 3 on it and not sure if I’m feeling a bit of placebo or if it’s actually helping my focus.

Hello Fishes,

Are there any openings for Functional testing?

Skill set: Functional testing 6.5 Yrs
Domain: CRM, Investment banking (Cap Mkts)

I will be able to join in 30 days. Please let me know if any!!

TIA!!

Which credit card do you think is the best for ME consultants?

Dude 🐠. Heading to Deloitte soon, want to get some better clothes. Maybe 3-4 new fitted suits, trendy but professional. Don’t want to spend a fortune. Any ideas on your favs?

OK! Confession time. I am a hypocrite. I judge people@if they ghost me on Grindr, at the sametime I do it a lot. I feel ashamed now

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Friendly reminder that even in a national quarantine, you still shouldn’t text your ex.

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Do you find that what you find attractive physically has dramatically changed over the years? Everything from body type to facial features I swoon over is so totally different

How long was your oldest relationship and why did it end? Was it an abrupt stop or did the sense of doom grow over time?

Do you all still go to Barry’s boot camp? I am dying for an actual workout but don’t want to be one of those vanity gays going out in a pandemic.

Not sure if other firms are the same, at EY we can add “🏳️‍🌈 I support inclusion” in our email sig. Most people from Unity ERG don’t. If you don’t, why not? Particularly during Pride month.

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

Who here have abs 😬

How do you shave/trim your beard without dropping the hair in the sink or on the floor? 🙏

Anyone at the Q center today/this week?

Overseas on a study and finding a hot expat to help me with some in-room dining.. sometimes we get food. This job is alright sometimes

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

The new junior on my team is from the South and refers to me as “Sir” and it’s making me feel all kinds of ways. How to proceed from here?

Any Atlanta fishes know if Angeria/BenDeLaCreme are doing additional appearances today? Missed the City Winery brunch!

Well I recently told a guy I have been seeing I have HSV-2. We have not yet been physical but it’s been heading that direction. Man I hate this part - waiting to see what his response will be after he researches and talks to his doctor. I’m on daily meds which help reduce transmission risk. You’d think that since HSV-2 affects 20% of Americans and likely a higher % of gay men, there would be less taboo but it’s hardly ever talked about. Anyone else in my shoes? Or had it disclosed to them?