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Don’t move, your mental health is the priority!
Having moved twice for work, I would recommend negotiating into your new contract a "get-out" clause - specify that after an agreed amount of time, all parties should meet again and discuss if the change is working for you.
If you never push out of your comfort zone, you will never see what you are capable of.
If you're happy where you are and enjoy being close to your family, I would advise against moving. The raise and promotion may be enticing, but it's important to weigh all the pros and cons of a potential move before making a decision.
Lots of factors to consider: what is the duration of the assignment; what is the percentage of increase; what is the moving package for WSP; cost of living in each location; will you be considered for other opportunities if you deny this one…on and on
Where are you in your career ?
Do you enjoy working for WSP?
What’s your new boss like?
I have lived in a few states and cities. I'm happy I've gotten the experience and perspective. It worked out because I can no longer afford where I'm from, so now I am looking at a possible relocation for a promotion. You can always go back home. A lot of people get stunted professionally because they refuse to move. You gain experience not by riding the same horse 100x but by riding 100 horses once.
I once read an article about how to train an excellent bird dog with a backbone. It suggested while raising from a puppy, to have the dog sleep in random rooms of your home; and random places every few days. Eventually, the dog becomes comfortable being in uncomfortable situations.
I served in the US Army Infantry for 6 years, and much of that time was spent sleeping in different random places, and you know what, it works. My mentality changed drastically after I recognized that if you get comfortable, you let things slip. Keep your self on your toes, and keep things changing.
You will get bored. And when you are, you will think back to this, and realize you need to get on the move again. Got for it.
It will be excellent for your personal growth, just know that sometimes you’ll feel like you’re missing out on time with family and old friends. I moved across a border and 14 hrs away from family, but experienced so much that I would’ve never had the chance to otherwise. Whatever you choose don’t look back :)
It's best to work close to your family
Don't go too far from them
I think most places can be interesting and excitint to move to for a few years. Assuming its your home town and the other city is not so close, you'll learn a lot and grow as a person moving away. Doesn't have to be permanent.
See if it’s possible to do the position fully remotely or traveling once or twice a month from your location. Or if is possible to pass on the promotion as you want to stay where you are currently.
Mental health is way more important like the person said above.
I mean I always say, you work to live, you don't live to work. Decide where you want to live, don't let work decide for you.
I moved for a job, 12hrs from home. I wouldn't do it again
If you do decide to move, make sure to take into account the cost of living in the new city and how that will affect your quality of life. It may be very different from what you're used to in your current city, so it's best to assess everything before taking such a big step!
It's great that you've been offered a raise and promotion, but it's understandable that you're conflicted about relocating. You should consider what is most important to you in a job and in life. If you're looking for a challenging new opportunity, then the move may be a good idea. However, if you value being close to your family and friends, then you may want to stay put.
If you're not sure about taking this opportunity, talk to your boss about your concerns and see if there is any way to compromise. Maybe you could commute to the new city on weekends or take some time off during the week to visit home. Whatever you decide, make sure you weigh all of your options carefully.
To quote Ron Swanson…. You will have a lot of job offers in your life but you will only have one hometown. Think deep and hard about what’s most important to you especially as your later in life having a little more money or being around the people that you love. It’s a hard question and I’ve done the wrong thing more than once as well.
I wouldn't move away from family again, unless home is a broken place. I'm sure I've made up the difference in income in flights and travel.
What's your next career goal? How does this move fit into the track you want? Relocating doesn't mean you chose work over family - you could be making memories or gaining valuable experience, so the future is brighter. Think bigger picture and see what the perspective is when you think broader.
Your family wants you to expand your potential. Maybe they support you to relocate for better chances