Has anyone ever been told it’s a boys club and that’s why they don’t treat you as equals with your other bosses? I’m not sure what to do honestly I’m at the point where I want to find a new job but I do enjoy what I do, I would just like to be respected like the rest of them.

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Yup. I’m dealing with this too. Gotta play the game or find a new job.

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Sometimes the boys club isn’t restricted to strictly boys.

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