Hi community, humbly seeking professional HR advice. I recently joined my company’s HR team. In an informal conversation, a senior HRBP, considered a peer, called 2 of our fellow HR colleagues “worthless.” I should have rebuked her then & there but was so caught off guard. This person is 20 years my senior. In the same conversation this person advocated for me on a separate matter & complimented my performance. I am not sure what course of action to take at this time. Distraught & unsure.

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Immediately untrustworthy. If they’ll say it about them, they’ll say it about you

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🤔 did she say this to you ABOUT them or to THEM to their face. I don’t condone either scenario, but if she said it in confidence to you, she may have just been trying to build relationship/bond with you. For some people, nothing bonds more than a common enemy.

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This person said nothing to them, this was said in a private conversation with me. I believe you are right & thank you for that insight. The 2 individuals spoken about were my former HRBPs before I moved into HR. Mainly I do not want this colleague to believe I condone that type of behavior, no matter how junior I may be

That’s a wise hunch, thank you. I was none the wiser & thought they all highly respected & valued one another. I will hang in there & if it occurs again, consider bringing it to our CHRO.

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