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I know a girl from two years in my workplace. It feels to me that I love her. Also it is certain that she doesn't love me. I want to understand why do I love her. I mean that girl has disrespected me twice. Everyone thinks she has ego. If you ask me I will honestly say that after I started loving her, no other girls come/ stay in my mind. Earlier I used to randomly love or fantasise about multiple girls. But after her I am not falling in love with any other girl. Even if

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It's okay to love from one side. But remember if she doesn't want the same, u shd respect her decision and this decision will be one of greatest ways of gratitude out of love u have.
Good Luck Man.

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Simp shahrukh read about alimony and marriage laws first

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Hello
Greetings everyone
I know a girl from two years in my workplace. It feels to me that I love her. Also it is certain that she doesn't love me. I want to understand why do I love her. I mean that girl has disrespected me twice. Everyone thinks she has ego. If you ask me I will honestly say that after I started loving her, no other girls come/ stay in my mind. Earlier I used to randomly love or fantasise about multiple girls. But after her I am not falling in love with any other girl. Even if I start thinking then absolutely this girl comes in my mind and all other girl's thoughts simply evaporate.

Now coming to her behaviour towards me. I think she doesn't even want to be friends with me. When she gets stuck in her deliverables, I help her out. But when I need her help, she simply refuses to help. Some of her words are- "Why can't you do". Another time: "Can't you do yourself." Third time: "I am busy with other work."
But I see her mostly offline.
All these times I helped her out when she or someone senior asked me to help her out.

Sometimes she even called me "bro".
I really don't want to be in love with her as she called me "bro". But again I start loving her. I don't know what has happened to me.(I have never expressed my feelings to her nor I would).

Is moh maya se bahar niklo, varna ganda vala katega...😅😅
She's clearly not interested in you, so keep your distance and start calling her sis, maybe that'll help you out to get over her...😅

Help krna bnd kr de .. she is ussing u.. baki its a tendency of Indian men that they are attracted to someone who dont value them or narsist women

Actually whatever chatgpt told was everything correct infact it happened in that sequence only. It helped me to perceive reality I had started loving not that girl but her idealisee version which my mind had created. My mind had no way to cope for her insults and so started creating random good scenarios that will happen and the girl will recognise me. Etc etc.
Surprisingly whatever chatgpt had told all had happened with me in sequence.
So now I have a clarity which your message also seems to be pointing when you wrote about Indian men start loving insulting women.
This happens because we try to create scenarios, good scenarios like the girl was in some problem and I helped her, next she comes to me and says sorry for the past insults. She recognises my worth. Many such good scenarios happen all mentally only with that girl as a means to cope with the insult she had done.

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Hi Folks,

Open for any referrals as a marriage prospect.

I am 28, Brahmin , 5'10
By profession , I am a B. Tech-15 passout and pursuing Modern MBA from a US college.
Doing well in job. In Startup cultures majorly.
Working as a Manager and handling multiple departments i.e. Operations, Customer Success, Inside Sales and Graphics currently.
Aspiring to become Growth Manager in near future.
Reports directly to CEO.

Anyone you know in your network can be a good fit for me , please reply or DM.

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