Hi Guys, I genuinely need guidance. I’m almost 30 and mentally exhausted due to marriage pressure.
Earlier I had 12 LPA in Noida, now moved to Bangalore with 19 LPA for career growth. Still, rishtas are not working mainly because:
I did BCA, not B.Tech
I am the only earning member
My hometown house is in an old narrow mohalla
Father is almost 70 and not working
Many families also reject because Bangalor is costly. I have 7.5 years experience.
Would appreciate genuine advice on what I can improve

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The marriage market is more brutal than job market brother.
You need to have lots of patience, if you take hasty decisions and choose wrong woman, then you and your family will suffer unnecessarily.

If you want better results,
I suggest you talk to multiple women simultaneously until you finalise one.

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Girls are not even considering my profile, so I’m not even getting a chance to talk to many of them and this is despite being 6 feet tall and fair. The main issue seems to be that my background is not considered strong enough, and many families reject me because I’m not a B.Tech graduate.

Brother, I’m not sure about your search criteria, if you are looking for a girl from tier 1 city who is working you will most likely not be considered. I would say look for alliance from tier 2 cities.

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I’m not even looking for a Tier-1 city girl because I already know they would probably reject me either the girl herself or her family due to my not so good background, hometown condition, and our old house in a not so good locality.

We proactively mentioning that I’ll continue living in a metro city, but even girls from my hometown are hesitant because Bangalore is far and expensive. Earlier, when I was in Noida near to my hometown families rejected me due to my lower package which was 12 LPA.

At this point, I genuinely don’t know what’s happening with life anymore.

Don't worry bro don't take too much pressure keep some buffer which you need after marriage... wait and get right match otherwise life will be hell and worse than now.. many girls searching for good guys like u... you need to enlarge the search and circle you will definitely get right girl.. dint make hasty decisions

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I need job in noida .

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