How can someone successfully (a) manage deep burnout at their current job, while also (b) embarking on a hunt for new position in this historically bad job market, and (c) not have all of it impacted by the depression & negative self-esteem that comes along with the deep burnout.

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It’s so rough. I’m going through it right now. Support system helps but definitely impacts my feelings of self worth and my quality of life. I think the toughest part is just having no time because the demanding job already takes so much but the job search is basically a part time job all on its own.

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Yeah, my company is constantly laying people off, there are times I long for the severance package.

Speak life into yourself focus on the person you want to become, take a solid off day where you don’t do anything at all but recharge in nature, and then just focus on the small consistent things you can do every day. If it’s one application great if it’s 10 great. Just make one move daily.

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Ps I just went thru this exact thing over 3 years. Just got out of it and that’s what helped me once I locked in

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Do you work for LinkedIn? People seem miserable over there with the same issues

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