How do you deal with the stress and anxiety from unnecessarily rude and aggressive judges? There is one in the northern district who has a hair trigger temper and will find any reason to lash out if he doesn’t like the party in front of him. I have a small issue in front of him this week and have had anxiety about it all day.

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One of the most important skills to develop as a litigator is to have thick skin and not allow those situations to affect you outside of the moment. I don't know if you're female like me, but the best way to handle it is to just stand there and take it, nod, and stay calm. It takes time, but you'll eventually be able to let it all go in one ear and out the other. Also, for females, some male attorneys will be outright belligerent and will yell & scream & say all sorts of (bs) cruel things to try to get under your skin, but it's best to just not react and actually let it motivate you to want to kick their @ss even more. Good luck to you :)

I bet I know which ND IL judge you are referring to and dismissed my case and refiled in state court. So not worth it to be before that type of judge.

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