How to make new friends but not be self conscious and insecure about yourself. I second guess everything Because I don’t want to weird them out or push away new people. What are some turnoffs?

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Just be yourself! Biggest turn off is when a person is trying to be someone else. Authenticity is key

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People gravitate towards authenticity. Be your authentic self and talk about things that genuinely interest u and listen to them.

I know this sounds so cliche but it’s so important’

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Most people are self conscious at least some of the time. People also have a wide variety of interests and sensibilities so be yourself to find people you can really connect with folks. I mean there are whole groups of people who go to dress up for comic con, people who knit or do book club, adult Dodge ball leagues. So everyone is a little bit strange😁

I used to tell my sister that people arent judging anyone has much as others think. If you are a fan of the show schitts Creek, it's the same as "david, no one cares" haha. Or when people give presentations - usually the audience is just happy it's not them up there.

Good luck!

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