Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

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That’s her way of keeping the conversation going and sharing about her life!Don’t read too much into it

Enjoy the second date

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Umm that’s a good sign lol

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What’s wrong with this? I’m a male and enjoy when a girl I like wants to keep the convo going or just is making convo. She likes you. It’s a good sign unless you don’t like her

Is there a singles bowl?

Do you follow up and ask how those activities went?

Good that’s how she makes conversation but it sounds like how I talk to my mom..take that as you will

I understand where you’re coming from OP, I’d rather not be tied to my phone all of the time and these are convos I’d rather have in person. Its not a huge deal unless there becomes an expectation to answer quick all of the time. Something to think about

0 expectation to reply quickly. 90% of the time we don't reply quickly since we have our own things to do.

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