I struggle with perfectionism and anxiety and this job seems to not help. How can I learn to be less of a perfectionist in a job that highly rewards this kind of behavior?

Hi Fishes,
Good day!
Can you please refer me in your company for Automation QA role?
Location - Mumbai
Exp - 7 years
Skills- Selenium, Java, Cucumber, Automation and Manual Testing

Looking for any leads on a 1br in upper Manhattan available July 1. Getting down to the wire and it’s crazy out there. Dm me, thanks!

I just joined a non-dream company as a 10+ years experience guy. My friend working in my dream company forwarded a job requirement from his internal postings. I want to give it a try but in case I get selected how hard or bad would it be to quit current company? I want to know what consequences I should be ready to face. Can someone please advice?

Any Bridge Engineers/Structural Engineers in here? I got my PE this year and have 5 YOE in TX + an MS. What sort of raise would you expect for receiving your PE working in a consulting firm? I am EOR on a number of structures in development, I manage EITs and Drafters (within projects; I'm not a supervisor), and am doing a lot in general. I'm at 78k currently, which is apparently still in the upper range of EIT salaries per a job posting in CO. I'm thinking of 15% (5% merit, 10% PE). Any ideas?

Hi, it has been 10 days since my LWD, I haven't received the relieving letter. How many days do they take to send this? Also, does anyone know the time taken to clear the F&F?

Looking for a new opportunity. 3 YOE as a PM 1 YOE in front end development at a large VMS B2B software company with measured results. Very interested in FAANG or other big tech anyone willing to connect or refer?

Hello guys, I need good docs/site to learn S4 HANA so that I do not get lost in the sea of material available online . Please post your valuable comments.

3 years of consulting experience across Telco, Media, and Manufacturing/Engineering clients. Have done operations transformation, supply chain strategy, BA, and change management work.

Anyone hiring or can offer referral?

How is the year going for you? Let me know below and see a resource I am offering!

My sons friend is looking to get into real estate . He is a junior at Indiana University. Looking for recommendations.

Hii all, I got an offer from KGS as Associate 2, with 8lpa, should I accept the offer?

What are the best consulting firms for digital marketing?

Anyone want to hangout?

Would people mind saying their yearly income and how much their mortgage/rent is? Can they also note if they live with roommates and how much they pay as well?

Has anyone successfully gotten their friend hired to their team? Has working with your friend been good, bad or the same for your friendship?

I am signing an offer this week at a different consulting firm, but want to stick it out through my project at my current firm over the next month. (Actually really enjoy the project just think the other firm is a better fit).

Am I obligated (morally or otherwise) to tell my firm that I’ve signed another offer? Or is it ok to stay on and work?

(Don’t have to start at the new firm for another month after that).

Does anyone else have a constant nagging feeling something bad is going to happen?

I've always have a constant fear of getting fired/ bad reviews - any little thing I do wrong or get feedback on I get I pretend I'm fine with but it really makes me even more anxious. Is this normal?

Fish fam! Need some help. I am a 23 year old male and I know that I am really wise beyond my years. I am just not having fun any more with what an average 20 something year thinks is fun. I want CONT

Curious if anyone here has been diagnosed with Narcolepsy? I just got my diagnosis after many years of struggling to stay awake and am wondering what to expect on the meds (xywav and wakix). I’m so excited for a new chapter and hoping it will improve my performance at work.

I feel like every time people talk to me, they can tell there's something a little off about me. I just joined a new job, and all the other people in my class are getting along really well w our office, but I feel like im left in the dust

Does anyone’s face freeze up when you start talking during a presentation? Idk if it’s my anxiety acting up physically or not. Mentally I dont feel that nervous, but my body tenses up physically.

I no longer tell myself I want to be dead. Meds and therapy have helped. But I also seem to not care if I die or get a terminal illness or disease. Like I won’t put myself in danger but if I get a disease or illness I won’t mind either. Does anyone else feel like that? Maybe that’s one reason I don’t bother to get myself in shape.

About month ago I was diagnosed with coronary artery disease (CAD) and had to go through cardiac catheterization to get a stent.
I am in mid 30s and it's unbelievable that i have got this. Have been quite down mentally for last few weeks, and don't think if I can sustain the consulting life anymore.
I am working hard to stop the progression of disease and potentially reverse it. Hope things work out.

Having a really hard time this week. Everyday just feels the same. I have zero motivation to work, all I want to do is lounge around and not be responsible for anything. How do I get over this feeling?

Long story short, I burned out. Anyone who recovered from deep, deep career setbacks or failures - share tips?

Losing my self esteem and self confidence that I am not able to recognize humans. Anyone can come I my life , fool me and screw up my life, ruin it. Upset about why I’m emotional person.

I think I have work trauma not sure how it’s clouding my ability to make decisions. I’ve had unstable work after being laid off from a company 3 years ago. I thought I worked out a plan to get to a stable place but my job is proving to be unstable yet again. I secured a FT role at another company but because it’s a lot less money I’m unsure because I feel very cynical about companies in general. I assume it’ll be just like all the rest but now I’ll just be making less and could get laid off.

Thoughts on Alcohol and SNRIs? I'm supposed to be starting on Pristiq. I've drank while on SSRIs before with no issue but wanted to see if anyone has any experience.

Also - general SSRI v. SNRI advice ?

Any tips for being more patient, in general?

Friends are ignoring me after they got promoted and I didn't. Really didn't think I would see this day :( How should I handle this?

When did you decide to get medicated? I have what I’d call “high functioning” depression and anxiety. See a therapist and all, but still deal with lows that seem hard to overcome for weeks on end - losing interest, hard to focus on work, sleeping difficulties, etc. Hard to tell when to make that decision!

Anyone get very depressed and anxious specifically around their birthday?? Comes around every year and it’s hard because people are asking me how I’m going to celebrate or what the plan is. It’s about a month from now and every year I feel more anxious and depressed around it, I’m only 23. Wish I could just time travel to later in the year or something.

Do any of you struggle with feeling like you owe other people. Or I guess owe your employer, company, team etc to put in your best effort? I think I feel this way but to the point of it being detrimental. And I’m not sure how to fix or change it. It’s like my whole existence is a ledger i need to keep in balance (lol accounting analogy)

Can someone not on your health plan leverage Accenture’s talkspace benefit? My partner is going through a tough time and I want them to utilize this benefit (it would help me focus better as well)

Coming up in 2 years with my girlfriend and worried I am beginning to get the feelings I started to feel prior to breaking up with my last girlfriend. I never felt before the way I felt about this