Incase y'all are looking for an update: I spoke to my husband about the affair. He said he knew about mine and was ok with it. I'm not super cool with it but fair is fair I guess. He said sorry tho so there's that. Still a bit hurt

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Both of you should test for STDs

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You do it

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Are you guys discussing making it an open marriage now?

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Well if you do open it up explicitly, or even tacitly for that matter, HMU.

Who ya gonna sleep w now that its an open marriage? Anyone in the pipeline?

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Context

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https://link.fishbowlapp.com/dOZO/tz5kejv5

Just curious how he knew about yours? Did you come clean or did he find out and never broached the topic with you?

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Men always know. You might think they don’t,but they do

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Your husband just hit the uno reverse card on you tbh

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Did you kiss and make up?

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Yes

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Why did you cheat?

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I was waiting for an update! 🍿
Counseling, and then open marriage / divorce. Don’t be in no man’s land forever - formalize the way forward. And maybe STD testing too…

Was it worth it?

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