Is it possible to set boundaries doing M&A work? For example, protecting a Saturday every once and a while if you have preexisting plans. If it’s possible then what’s an appropriate way to do so.

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I've found you can only set boundaries as far as turning down new deals, but it's extremely hard to set boundaries within an existing deal as docs are flying in real time.

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As a junior, sure

As you get more senior it is possible (even likely) to have many saturdays off. It is hard to choose a saturday in advance and with 100% hell or high water success say i want THIS saturday off.

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And to be clear by "sure" i dont mean routinely i mean occasionally. Generally being available as a junior gives you currency you spend on being hard unavailable at certain high value times even if inconvenient. As you get more senior you get more necessary so no matter what unavailability is harder even if in general control goes up.

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I’ve had no issues with setting boundaries in my first 6 years. Fortunate to work with deal teams that respect each others time and what we all have going on outside of work. Offering to cover for someone while they’re out for a day goes a long way too.

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I’ve had no issues in setting boundaries. Unless there’s a signing or closing, I respond somewhat slowly on weekends, and I never cancel plans. I don’t say no to a weekend request, I just give a timeline that works for me (e.g., I can do this in four hours).

I’m working with the worst partner in my group right now so I’ve been doing some work most weekends, but before this deal with this partner I only worked 2 weekends a month or so, and pretty minimally.

4th year at West Coast firm.

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Depends on your seniority but typically, partners expect you to be quite accommodating of their requests unless you have a real immovable conflict. You have to show a helpful attitudes

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No. When shit hits the fan, everyone has to step in to clean. Clients change the timeliness a lot. Issues are discovered that have to be handled, etc. While this doesn’t happen every weekend, Murphy will ensure it will happen when you have pre-existing plans. If in m&a, you have to accept that the email can come at any time and accommodate your life around it. This means that all holiday bookings are in your name, so if the firm will make you cancel, you will be reimbursed. That you drag your laptop in most places, just in case. The only way to protect yourself is to be somewhere without signal. But then your team will have to pull your weight and while they may be fine to do it here an there, they won’t want you on deals if this will be a regular occurrence.

Agreed that everyone can do junior’s work. But if someone is looking to choose their specialization, they should understand what they are walking into. And it also depends on the team and how much of a workaholic are the senior people on the deal

Every once in a while is key here. If you have plans, especially things like tickets or family / friends from out of town that you can’t just cancel, it’s reasonable to protect that, but it can’t be every single Saturday. It’s also way more reasonable to be away for a couple hours (and usually weekend work is flexible for this except for a signing or closing) than it is to try and block the whole day

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