Got negative feedback about my email tone. Was told some of them requesting items were too "blunt" and borderline rude. Since when did our jobs become a non-contact sport?

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If you want something, don't be a dick about it, it's not hard to be polite.

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I had a tight deadline recently, and I needed the help of our back office. The guy placed my project above some of my colleagues and really helped me out. When I asked him why ,he said " I like the way you treat me." Key lesson: be human towards the people you work with, even if you think they are beneath you.

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Exercise some emotional intelligence

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Just start each email with a "hope you're doing well" and all is forgiven

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You can be direct and urgent without being an asshole. Learn the difference between concise and curt and you'll get a much different response.

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Sad to say but @DB1 is right. What seems like normal request to you will come off as a rude snarky request to someone else.

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The lack of tone in emails can make requests blunt. So read it again and add some please and thank yous.

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Yeah you'd be filtered to my spam folder.

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Was brutally laughed by my VP because I wrote something like " hope you are doing well/have a nice day" ....and was asked not to write those words again…lol

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