I’ve always heard that soft skills beat technical skills and that’s the way to progress. I know I have great technical ability but my soft skills suck - specifically communication where I struggle with articulation, auditory processing. My poor emotional regulation has also let me down. Any good success stories on improvement or recommendations? I don’t want to be stuck anymore.

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Technical skills help get you in the door most of the time, and soft skills really do help you get further. Have also struggled with most of the above, still not perfect by any means, but a lot of practice. Soft skill courses were good for me to at least get started, and then making sure to practice and give some self feedback to improve.

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CU1 I’ve since purchased a workbook and started using some of the techniques, thank you ❤️

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