I've been tasked with planning the next office social, and I happen to know about some drama going on behind the scenes between a couple of people on the team. In this type of situation, how can I choose a neutral activity that naturally includes everyone?

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Their drama is not your problem and it's not for anyone else to have to navigate around it. From what you're saying, it sounds like it's some drama that you're not even supposed to know about. So just ignore it and let them figure out on their own how to behave.

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Does your company encourage a team spirit? Surely, these individuals can act with civilty and mutual respect? I would go ahead and plan your social and not worry about their drama

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Make sure the alcohol is flowing and the popcorn is ready! I kid, but as others have said, it's not on you to deal with their drama. If any does come out it's a poor reflection on them only and no one is going to be thinking "if only this was planned differently none of this would have happened". I wouldn't add any stress on top of dealing with the planning.

😂😂 You forgot to tell OP to be sure to bring up politics and religion too. Completely agree though, this is their problem, not OP's. If they don't care enough about their professional reputations to go a few hours without arguing, there isn't anything you can do but point and laugh.

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