Just thought I’d share a rather amusing story. Yesterday my boy was at his office working late, and I went sailing with our friends (a straight couple), got hammered, went out for dinner, swimming in their pool, then showed up at his place in an Uber in not a great state. When I woke up this morning I heard “how are you doing Sue Ellen”? Hilarious. Then I had to go back to our friends’ house to pick up my sunglasses, which I left there. Luckily I took the day off.

Got way too drunk at a work event last night. Please tell me horror stories to make me feel better 🙇🏽

F fishies- my hair is thinning and falling out. Do you have any product recs for hair growth?

Any openings for WPF or desktop application developer?

Looking for opportunities, any leads will be helpful? 4YOE in dotnet

What would be the salary in tcs after 8 years being average performer, if starts as a fresher

Microsoft Azure
Aws
Developer, administrator, architects

Remote support from india, for USA customer contact on 8851891563

One of the reasons I want to transition from industry to consulting (tier 1) is that I get frustrated when I have to collaborate with mediocre people. My assumption is that Tier 1 consulting firms hire really sharp people and if I can get in, I’ll be collaborating with folks on top of their game (not expecting much from clients). I’m aware there are personal aspects I need to work on like my mindset, patience etc etc, but I just get so frustrated with blatant stupidity.

Hello Team, Could you please let me know, how much salary will be sufficient to live in malaysia with family.

How much salary can we expect for 10yrs of experience.

Guys please suggest which company should i join
Optum(uhg) - 22 Lpa
IBM - 22 Lpa
Epam Anywhere - 24 lpa
YOE : 6.2yrs
~TIA

Any recommendations for where to get Botox done in the bay/SF? Looking to get it in the frown are, maybe the forehead

what worked for you guys searching for accommodations in luru?

Recommendations on slim fit denim shirts. Not for the office of course but I feel like it’s a staple I need in my wardrobe.

I work in quant and rely on our company’s database for everydays task, but couldn’t get any support from the company’s tech/data team. It’s been such a struggle. Everyday im fighting with red tapes and firewalls. :(

Best practices to avoid burning out in FDD?

Is it as hard to take PTO as people say? I have a couple of long weekend trips planned (covid willing) in May and June, which is right after I start, but have heard that it’s normal to have to cancel plans due to last minute deals coming in. Any tips??

Hi All,
I joined bosch recently in coimbatore location. But most of my teammates and manager are from bangalore.
Now manager is asking me to relocate to Blore for few months to get trained from teammates.
Also he is saying he can't consider this as a business trip and hence cannot provide accommodation
Is this normal in bosch?

I work in sf and Nyc and have now saved enough where I’m wondering if it makes sense to buy rather than rent an apartment as an investment. Tricky part is I’m still quite young and this wouldn’t be my lifelong/family home. Have also considered buying in less metropolitan areas and renting them out for passive income. Curious if anyone’s gone through this process before and have thoughts ?

I know this isn’t a marriage therapy bowl, but my husband has a really terrible tendency of saying things like “you’re being really mean” and completely shutting down during a disagreement when i objectively am not being mean, just truthful or vocal about how i feel about something. It’s a really convenient argument for him because it enables him to either be the victim and me the villian, or forces me to concede my stance and not reach a true resolution. Any tips on dealing with the irrational?

Blow me one last kiss 😘

Gay men in NYC?

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

OK! Confession time. I am a hypocrite. I judge people@if they ghost me on Grindr, at the sametime I do it a lot. I feel ashamed now

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

Anyone know a way to get a cheap flight this coming festive period?

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Matched with a guy on Tinder. Had a great first date. We are stilling chatting on WhatsApp. But he has disappeared from my tinder (presumably, he unmatched with me). Is it typical for ppl to unmatch on Tinder when they are still interested in you?

I want to buy my husband some underwear for Valentine’s Day. What brand do you guys like?

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

Has anyone been with someone with a really small one? What was your experience like? I recently started seeing someone with the tiniest one I’ve ever seen (like an inch). I’m ok with it, but he’s clearly insecure and I want to be understanding

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

Friendly reminder that even in a national quarantine, you still shouldn’t text your ex.

Poll on general attitudes towards open relationships? I’m in one and find that some folks are totally non-judgmental about it, while others are so vicious/rude about it. Curious about your opinions! I understand that every open relationship is different, and each couple defines their own arrangement/rules. For context, ours is a passive one that’s hardly acted on, but we both have Grindr and meet guys for fun on the very odd occasion (whether together or apart). If you’re in one, describe yours!

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

I like it when a guy’s feet are smelly. Is it weird?