"Maternal bias" doesn't affect me personally (I am childless), but I feel compassion for the women on my team dealing with this daily. Anyone else?

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I can definitely say that this is true and has been at almost every company I have worked at. They really do assume if you have kids you aren't going to work as hard or be as dedicated to your job. But we never assume that about fathers.

In my late 40s with a kid and in Tech, which is still dominated by men.

Honestly, this hasn’t been my experience. I have been very lucky in general and have not personally experienced a lot it discrimination and bias - intentional or unintentional. That said, when I did experience it, it has never been because I am a Mom, it was simply because I am a woman.

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