What is something you want in a partner but is so absolutely ridiculous and can't put it in your profile?

E.g., they must be into manga/anime, but not to the point they drag me to a con to cosplay

How do you deal with imposter syndrome? I'm a new therapist and I work with a bunch of women who have been doing this for ages. They're all really sweet, but I can't help feeling like I'm way out of my league. I mostly see younger clients which I guess works in my favor, but I just feel like I'm totally incompetent compared to the women I work with.

Day of remote interviews at a tech co for in-house. 5 YOE. Planning on wearing a suit. Tie or no tie?

What are your tips on convincing a fellow employee not to switch agencies? I really don't want to compete with them

How do you deal with a passive aggressive supervisor who regularly points fingers and throws people under the bus?

Happy Halloween! Who says Financial Professionals are not creative? Share what you dressed up as for work today?

It appears J Crew is filing bankruptcy this weekend and brooks bros might not be too far behind. What are consultants going to wear when we eventually get back to work??

I met two of my three aides for the first time today and they have been nothing but miserable the entire day. How could I promote a more positive environment without directly calling them out?

Has anyone received negative feedback after a performance review cycle? I mean everything negative. I feel completely blindsided by my Director. Thinking of setting up a call to refute his feedback. Advice?

Giving notice tomorrow. Accepted another offer. Nervous to tell my boss because I know I’ll be leaving them screwed but I’m miserable. Love my team. The client is stupid and the work is soul crushingly uncreative. But still feel guilty :(

My boss is always making last minute changes to my schedule. Adding shifts or asking me to cover for other people. Any advice on how to handle this? I want to be a team player but the last minute changes stress me out.

How do you handle rude clinicians in the workplace? I always have an attending talking down to me.

Welp! Finally got the axe today too. I didn’t even get to talk to my manager. One of the execs I support told me he’s very sorry and I was great, etc etc, but it couldn’t be avoided. Whatever. I kind of never want to work again. I’m heartbroken.

Are you responsible for giving performance feedback? Avoid giving personality based feedback. Examples include telling an Asian person they are too quiet/shy or telling a Black person they are agressive/abrasive. DO NOT DO THIS. It clearly represents bias in Performance Management. Performance feedback should be tied to business outcomes with clear examples of what the person does well + how they can improve.

I’m a manager and one of my direct reports makes more than me. It really bothers me. Anyone else been in this situation before? What’s the best way to handle it?

Fashion Q: what kinds of pants do you guys wear day-to-day? I know skinny jeans are considered “out,” but super baggy mom jeans are not flattering on my small frame. I wear leggings when I’m WFH, but I want to look slightly more put-together/fashionable outside my home

What you should do when dealing with a very toxic worker that keep on sending passive aggressive messages to you as well as in group chat and email.
Things like when you answer his question he respond: I know that
Or when he keeps on saying my change requests were just minor in group meeting but actually not.
And keep on saying how hard he works when he clearly wasn’t and already underperformed compared to an intern level.

How to not let this toxic co-worker not poison me any further?

Think about your best manager…what traits do / did they possess? What made them shine as leaders?

How to deal with people flirting with you at work.
I’m married, and one of my coworkers flirts with me. Nothing super overt, but definitely not professional. We’re good friends and work together constantly because we’re on the same client, so I don’t want to make it awkward. Do I just do nothing and let it go? It is mostly just odd I’m not super offended, but I’m also clearly uninterested!

Question for the ladies: I'm getting sick of spending so much time getting ready for work. Would it really matter if I tried less (eg wore my hair in a bun everyday, wore less makeup)?

My GCD barely says hi to me when passing + doesn’t listen to me in meetings. It’s not a gender thing bc I see him talk to senior ADs all the time. How do I not be THAT junior?

Hello! Are there any traveling paralegals in the group? I’m interested in becoming one.

Hi Fishes,
I am going to join ZS in 2 weeks. It was mentioned in the OL that I will be provided a accomodation for first 2 weeks .
It would be great if you guys please throw some idea on thi..
As, how is the quality of the accomodation?
Is food also available there??
Can I take my parents??

Your fav brand to shop fashion?

Advice for interviewing at Spotify? It’s for a contract role and there is only one round of interviewing.

Hi Fishes

Want your opinion. how much base pay can be expected for a senior associate position in Technology Consulting for someone with ~7 years of experience.

bought doge about a month ago for shits and giggles. TO THE MOON!!!!!

Anyone feel frustrated at times with the super aggressive sales personalities we deal with? My AE is always pushing on every ask no matter how minuscule it is. My vp is super anal about anything we do. I understand these guys pull in huge commissions and bonuses that’s why they are so motivated. However what I personally feel is they just nag us until we do the job according to their spec. Just venting……anyone else feel the same?

What is your fashion inspiration? (i.e. GQ, Pinterest, etc?)

In early stage VC. What metrics should I be concerned about at the Associate stage of my career to have to have a strong CV. Too early to be credited for returns. Board seats?

What is a good salary range for a Principal UX Designer with 15+ years of experience working in either Finance, Tech or Media industry in NYC?

Is anyone here into micro-brands? (Helios, Lorier)

Which RB should I start in addition to Saquon Barkley in this 1 PPR league?
-Alex Collins @ CLE
-Javorius Allen @ CLE
-Dion Lewis @ BUF
-Aaron Jones @ DET

Hi All, Can someone please help me to choose between CTS malaysia and Mastek .
I am not sure about mastek . Can someone please let me know how is mastek company and what is grade 6 role ?

Has anyone used Loan Cabin to refinance? They seem to have the best rates.

Is love blind? Have we figured it out yet?

Post your A/S/L: let’s see where all of y’all from :)

So has anyone been able to find love here?

28F, Boston, lawyer at Big4!!! Dm me. Let’s gooooo!!!

You know things are bad when a bowl like this shows up in your feed. You know things are REALLY bad when you join it without hesitation 😅

Any 40F interested to chat?

35M , ladies would you be cool with a SD. Let me know you what you like to be spoiled with !!

I have a thing for UX designer girls. They are classy in their artistic style. ❤️ Do we have any here?

Someone please share any success stories from this bowl. We need hopes lol

Any single nyc men ages 32-49 interested in dining with me at one of these phenomenal restaurants, once they open back up? F/39
Chikarashi Isso, Atera, Jungsik, Wayan, Atomix or Eleven Madison.

Anyone up now?

31/m/oh straight and looking for fun

Love is Dead!

Geez, I feel like I'm in the kiddie pool. Anyone here mid-30s and older?

Any handsome guys in LA? I’m so lonely

🙋🏻‍♀️ F27 Attorney. Anyone finding love here?

Where are my sexy male engineers at?

Just a Lauren in CA looking for her Cameron 🙌🏽

Anyone really trying to find love being blind or it’s the same old way, even here? It has worked really well with me. I can pass some tips if wanted. M if that matters.