My previous employer has given me a bad and false reference which has resulted in the job of my dreams being taken away from me. Please help 🙏🏻 and advice or direction would be gratefully received.
I have previously worked for a support and substance misuse organisation for approximately 10 years and they have broken my heart ad soul. The only thing I did wrong was my job! (Supporting vulnerable adults with addiction)

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I'd first do some research online or talk to friends or family who might be able to give good advice. This might even be something that could turn into a lawsuit! Good luck.

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