South Asian friends, give it to me straight: how much did you spend in total on your wedding (including location & number/size of events)?

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I’m South Asian but we had a smaller wedding. For the actual wedding, we had a small rehearsal dinner/welcome party, Indian ceremony, civil ceremony, and reception for about 120 people. The weekend prior, we had a welcome event at someone’s house, haldi, and puja for about 150. All for about $80-85k

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