My wife was groped by the husband of a classmate at a grad school event. She raised the issue right away and the guy got kicked out of the event. It upset her enough that she cried and it ruined her evening. 3 other ladies at the event also reported unwanted touching by the same guy at the same event.

They’re thinking of pressing charges. The wife of the guy doesn’t want them to, since her husband might get kicked out of the country. Obviously not her fault for any of this.

What do you think?

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He definitely needs to be reported, that is scary I’m so sorry!

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Man gropes my wife and getting kicked out of an event would be the least of his concerns.

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A more fair (and worse) punishment might be a private closed door meeting between the grop-er and all of the grop-ee’s husbands.

I’m sure justice could be served in that setting without this man being kicked out of the country, and then he’d be a lot less likely to do it again.

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Yeah and record it if it’s a one party state and send it on in

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You want to protect the man who emotionally and sexually abused your wife why??

Won’t be the last time this man does this. His pattern during one single night is enough.

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And what is she wanting to do now OP?

So my wife, one other victim and a friend who was a witness spent 4 hours at the police station this weekend. The others didn’t want to go though with it (some accepted to be contacted by police, others didn’t). We’ll see what happens.

Apparently the guy and his wife changed their plans left town the day after the event and earlier than scheduled (to a neighbouring European country).

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Please let your wife know that she did something really brave and cool by going through with the effort of reporting this creep!

Wishing the both of you, and all the women affected, all the best ❤️

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100% press charges. He knows the immigration laws and still decided to be a garbage human. Immigrant or not, always report sexual assault.

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I’m for giving grace but multiple times in one night indicates something really pervasive (and perverted). I don’t think grace is best here and reporting it might be best.

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Press it. No mercy for the sinful

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Please - report him.

I’d definitely report but also don’t expect the authorities to care. Very often they just brush it under a rug and take no action, even when it’s more of a violent attack (such as r*pe), unfortunately… Been there, done that, sucks ass.

I’m still an advocate for reporting these things regardless, on the off chance it comes across someone’s desk who actually wants to hold creeps accountable for their actions.

Hopefully! In some places it’s so hard to get a protection order or restraining order too, though. I hope these women are able to have the book thrown at this guy, and that it doesn’t turn out like my case did. 🤞🏼

Umm with a president who’s don’t the same thing, good luck getting a verdict guilty. Unless there’s a video, there can be 100 witnesses but if there’s a guy on the jury who voted for trump, he’ll walk and probably counter sue for defamation

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