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Interesting quiz. Seems like there’s no real way not to be fragile other than to have no reaction and just accept when someone calls you racist.

Counter question: Any time someone makes a statement about my actions or character, is it wrong to feel accused or judged? What is the statement someone is making if not a judgement or accusation?

If that’s the case, what exactly should I be feeling when someone says something detrimental about me?

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Principal 1,

I get that. I can be somewhat clinical at times.

I am genuinely interested in others - sounds like you are that way too - and I’m alway up for doing / being better. So I would want to know as much as I can about what I could have said / done differently.

I prefer to be ~anti fragile-

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If white fragility is basically having any kind of emotional reaction to being called out for racism, it seems like you would want more white people to be fragile

Hi D2, the definition of white fragility is provided in the opening post. Take another look and share your thoughts.

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