Need advice: My aunt has been mentally harassing me since childhood (stuff like you will never get into a good college to your mom will die soon and you won’t be able to do anything about it - my mom is epileptic) coupled with my sensitive nature it led me to develop bipolar. What shocked me was that my mother never took any action despite me always telling her what was going on. Moreover she still wishes to continue maintaining relations with her even at the cost of our relationship. Pls advise

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Continued: I love my mother deeply and when I brought it up with her again today she said that I am a selfish person ( I buy her everything she wants even if it breaks my bank but she never acknowledges it, take her wherever she wants to go and do whatever she wants me to do) I have distanced myself from my aunt but what really hurts me is that my mother turns a blind eye whenever her brother or sister misbehave with me. I have thought of emotionally distancing myself from my mother but don’t know if it’s the right thing to do and whether or not it will give me some mental peace.

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Please consider a couple of therapy sessions. A decent one would cost a maximum of 1000 rs each, but it might help.

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