New Year’s resolution: better decisions.
Her profile: gorgeous, aligned with everything I’m looking for except a scary past. Should I DM her?

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Are you divorced also? Kids?

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why don’t you see if there’s mutual interest first

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Only for fun and to take your turn — def not for long term

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Pass. She had a kid and divorced her husband right after? Meh

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What makes you two an exact match I’m curious

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Just the basic preferences. Height, location, education kinda basic stuff.

That’s an insane amount of baggage before the age of 40. It screams “I make bad decisions”.

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How old are you?

Pass ... you are too young to deal with the 2 divorces and 5 kid baggage.

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Pass

Where you located?

Is this through a matchmaker?

What’s going on? This many pwcers are single?

She’s an almost 40 year old bartender with 5 kids. Come on now.

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