Question that might be controversial. Dowry, how does this work in the USA? Isn’t it supposed to be for financial security for the bride in case of a divorce or something happening to the man? But with the laws here in the USA they are already entitled to half of everything so not sure why this is required unless we are allowed to get a prenup as well. Also dowry when the wife also has a career doesn’t seem right. I’m just thinking out loud and would love some dif perspectives!

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In the context of the western. As a male it's my a firm believe unfortunately that a female who isn't God fearing will try to leverage what's to her benefit of the west and east. Islamically she'll get her dowry and half of whatever assets the couple have even if she chooses not to work.

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Yeah obviously the concept of a dowry isn't common here because financial security for the wife is typically covered through divorce laws or a prenup. I agree, if both partners have careers and financial independence, a dowry seems less relevant. But I think it's just up to each indivdual couple and family what you want to do. Some might be offended if it's not offered, even in the US context.

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I once told someone I'm okay with your mahr as long as we have an agreement that can be upheld in the courts that she'll be entitled to nothing else as far as marital assets in which she hasn't contributed into. She didn't agree. It's led me to believe it's a mere financial transaction for many.

It’s more cultural and customary than anything. I gave my wife $1000. Obviously that won’t support her of something happened with me but nowadays it’s just a cultural gift of money. On top of all turn other gifts she gets.

What's cultural if you don't mind sharing? Probably one of the few if it's cultural for you guys.

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