Salam, I’m trying to grow this bowl with the proper balance of type of desis. Would appreciate if any of my single brother sisters join

https://joinfishbowl.com/bowl_f6b2trtd97

Came here to say that I wish I could fully express to my non-parent colleagues how much their support has meant to me. I can cover for them when they have stuff so they can unplug, but I feel like they will never truly understand the gratitude when they offer to do a task for me when my kid is sick, etc. Any ideas on how to pay it forward?

So uhhh anyone need a house sitter the week before memorials day weekend? Wanted to visit the city and go to the office a few days but my friend who I usually crash with is out of town

Thinking about divorce. Wife had an affair 3 years ago that I haven’t been able to move past. Been married 11 years and have two kids though. Restarting individual and couples therapy before I pull the trigger. Anyone else been in a similar situation? Should I blow up the family if I can’t get beyond this?

Anyone marry their law school sweetheart?

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

I’m keep getting flashbacks from my previous relationship. I want to report him for domestic abuse/date rape charges but I don’t know if it’s a wise idea esp after a whole yr

So I want to marry a physician (girl) as they make good money so I get a good life plus decent retirement. Is it selfish to marry someone for money???

I’m having trouble transitioning from work to home. What do you guys do to get yourself in the “home” mind so you can be fully present for your kids? What are your transition routines?

When did suffering through a work day in constant physical pain due to a medical issue become normal? The guilt I feel for staying home is more than I ever expected when I wanted to become a teacher.

It really bothers me when I hear kids being referred to as under privileged. We say that to them enough then they start to believe they are less than others 😡

Hi! Have any here gone the natural cycle IVF route? What was your experience like? Did you have success in growing your family this way? Would you recommend it to others?

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

My Dad and brother didn’t even text me happy birthday 😔

Partners with kids and a working spouse, how do you manage? Is it realistic for both people in the relationship to work full time long term? How do you keep marriage going and career progressing?

I give massive kudos to all the parents out there juggling work and home life. But it’s starting to feel like I pulled the short stick by not having a kid. Really struggling to pick up all of the slack from all of the colleagues that do have kids and feel like the expectation is that parents should turn off while the rest are working from 7am - 2am everyday to make up for it.

FML. I’ve been dating someone for 8 months and have been having doubts about the longevity of the relationship. This week he tells me he is thinking about leaving our city and working remotely. Even though I was already thinking about ending it, this hurts. I know I’m being childish - being rejected by someone who I was planning to reject! And I know he isn’t the right guy for me in the long term. So why does this hurt?! 😭😭😭

I think my parents need therapy but being Indian parents they don’t believe in therapy. Has anyone had any success in convincing their parents to go? Is it too late because of their age?

Hi everyone. I am a graduating senior at Penn State looking to get a job in tech consulting or cybersecurity. I have been searching for the past month and a half. I currently have 1.5 years of experience as an IT Level I Technician. Any advice for me? As a woman in tech, I have been struggling to find my confidence lately.

I hate due diligence requests. Every time my email notification pings I want to cry. I’m already going as fast as I can.

Amazon is hiring a lot of migration specialist ,could anyone refer me ? Also what is the package they offering

Hello Fishes, Can anyone tell me hows the work culture in Citibank? And what will be the average salary and perks for C11 band? @

Anyone joining Citi on 5th dec at Pune location?

Delivered Mindtree laptop today, can we use this laptop for our uses like learn online, play YouTube, netflix and all after office hours?

Hi,
Looking to find out realistic salary of VP's in technical roles at Barcalys in London area. I've been working at Barcalys for 7 years in Infrastructure engineering roles , I feel like I am getting underpaid, I have no realistic reference since this is my first fulltime job.

Does anyone have insight on what I could expect the base salary to be for a program manager position at Capital One? It’s listed as a manager level position in the process and project management category. Any insight would be helpful!

Do you need to have your first day of period to start an ivf cycle ?

Is it a good Idea to switch after 6 months if project is not suitable or should stay for longer?

Guys, what's with the TopHire platform. Is it good?

What’s the biggest point of pain for you Indy’s, that tech or other services hasn’t fixed yet?

Does anyone feel trapped in Autos in the D? I mean it’s what we are known for, but diversifying media clients seems hard in this area unless it’s the Big 3.

Does EXL have an internal forum where employees sell out the cars after lease is over?
Or even lease transfer?

How many leaves are allowed to avail as per HR policy in Axis bank. Annual leave policy and sick leaves?

Which company to join Accolite digital or Capgemini?

Idhar koi kuch post bhi karta hai ke sab ummun bukmun sumun hain?

Salam, I have re-made this group after the original one one disappeared. Welcome!

Yar need some activity here lads/lasses!!!

Salam folks! Honestly, getting to the semifinals is a big deal. But the outcome was expected… I’m rooting for the Kiwis!

Is this bowl active?

Hey anyone here based out of states?

Is anyone based in Boston? Would love to plan a meet up… the group in pretty small…there has to be more of us 😅

Anybody based in Dallas. I am wanting to connect with other professionals.

How many of you all are US based? Principal with Kearney here, based out of NY.

Anyone traveling to Pakistan any time soon?

Where are people @ in this lockdown?

I'm in UK

My heart really goes out for the women in Pakistan, the amount of harassment they face on daily basis. I wonder why that is, is the root cause the extreme level of gender segregation.