Salam, I’m trying to grow this bowl with the proper balance of type of desis. Would appreciate if any of my single brother sisters join

https://joinfishbowl.com/bowl_f6b2trtd97

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

Partners, how have you managed to balance the work, obviously substantial, and your family? I see many with stay-home SO, but wondering if it is possible to prioritize family if your SO has a demanding career

Has anyone quit their job because of a relationship? I started my job 3 months ago and now my employer wants me to move to NY. The thing is, I fell in love during the pandemic with a friend that I have known for 3 years. It's frustrating since I know I could continue my job from home. I would honestly quit my job and wouldn't mind the job search again.

I ve been in Houston for like 8 months now. I am introverted, and I live by myself. I literally have no friends here outside of the folks I talk to at work.
I need help.

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

I don’t feel connected to my parents at all. After spending 15 years here, I am unable to connect to their extreme right nationalist views and the extra emphasis on the connection to our roots.

30 year old male daddy hunter. Slide into my DMs if you’ll be my father figure until the end of time.

AITA: My friend keeps asking me for financial advice. I set up a budget for her and have her concrete advice. And I field all of her investing questions. But still, she continues to be reckless with her money. She’s 42, single (no kids), and making $100k+ and is still living check to check.

I don’t want to waste my breathe on helping her since nothing seems to be getting through to her. AITA?

Anyone else juggling having kids at home during the winter break and trying to work from home around your SO (who is also working from home). The holidays are always SO hectic at my place and I'm feeling like a failure, my mother was a perfect housewife and I'm far from it lol. Other parents struggling with this?

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

Desi folks! Why do you let your parents manage your profile on the websites? It’s so uncomfortable when you get a call at 4 am saying “beta, we like your profile.” 🤷🏽‍♂️

Brought my gf sushi take out to her house when she got off of work. She didn't like the meal I got her and started to eat the roll i got for myself. She noticed I wasn't eating so I told her I ate before rather than tell her she was actually eating my dinner. She's now mad at me that I "lied" even though I did it so she wouldn't be embarrassed. Who's in the wrong

My wife and I are both terrible housekeepers and our clutter is overwhelming us. We have two kids under 3 and a wonderful nanny but we need more help at home. How do we throw money at this problem? Where do we start to get ongoing professional help decluttering, organizing, cleaning, etc.? What has worked for you?

Any suggestions for getting kids to do homework? Sped Math 6th grade high need area - I cannot get these kids to turn in hw. Anyone agree with the idea of allowing class time for HW? I am at a loss

Hi guys

This question may not be related. However I wanted to know from personal and family point of view how it is like to relocate from India and live abroad .
Let's say Family consists of husband , wife and a kid . I understand we will get good facilities, education, cleanliness , good air etc , however I wanted to check whether people gel up easily in the new environment? Don't they feel loneliness/ difficult to adjust? Do they look for similar asian nationalities to kill boredom?

Do any female desis who are married take care of their own parents?

Question: Girl friends parents finally came over for a ristha. Everything went great or so I thought but now she wants to time to think about moving forward. The pain point she brought up is that we are in different states and she is feeling pressed. Although in that time she has started communicating less and I literally had to beg her to get on face time. My gut says she wants to end it but unsure. Any advice ? It's been 2 weeks since this event

Brillio has openings in Hyderabad location for Java Fullstack.
Exp- 4yoe
If interested, you can dm

Need 11likes for dm please

How are Projects in IBM ? Any Pros and Cons ? If any idea please do let me know.

Have any of you guys received the 'premium' backpack that is currently being sent to few dusi folks?
Want to know if they have started sending to Kolkata region or not.

Mercedes E class vs BMW 5 series? How would you rate each?

How does the @paytm -telco product team work?
Is there a work life balance? what is the range of salary for a sr.product manager? what should be good ask with 7 YOE?

Hi Fishes,
I'm currently looking for a job change in UX field.
I have 2yrs of relevant experience. If anyone can refer me that would be of great help

Thanks in advance 🙂

Hi folks,

I am serving notice period. I am looking for referral in the area of Frontend developer.
My skills - Angular, React js , Javascript, HTML5
My LWD- 30 October
Total experience - 1 year 8 months

Goodbye XRP! Thanks for the awesome gains and good luck hitting that absurd $100B market cap 😁

Looking for a Referral for Data Scientist roles in NYC. Have Solid Background in Product(ROI oriented) as well as Core ML

ACCA and CPA qualifications. How useful are they in the line of consulting. I work in the M&A space focusing on FDD. Happy to have a chat to see what qualifications if any are actually useful in our line of work.

I live in a very small rural community. I am trying to start a LGBTQ+ Alliance group for my students. Currently my administration is on board, but you can see the apprehension as I talked with them this morning.

I am not sure how to proceed, they approve but do not want me to be school sponsored "for liability" reasons. How are we supposed to do anything if I can't use the buses, or take them to things sponsored by the LGBT Community? HELP! Please no haters.

Has anyone switched from a traditional private credit role (3 to 4 person deal teams) to an independent sourcing / execution role (you are the deal team), also in private credit. How difficult was the transition? Any advice?

Is bgv closed before joining LTI.
What are the things in BGV closed before joining and after after joining.

35 F🐟, Boston, 🙋

Has anyone had a nurse state the assumed sex at 12 week ultrasound? The nurse is fairly sure it's a boy, and I'm wondering how accurate her guess is based on a close look of the genitals. Confirmation won't happen until 20 week appt, too far away!

My family and I want to move from Florida to the Seattle area in 5 years. My husband is in Aerospace Engineering. We both love nature, hiking, and rock climbing. We prefer cool rain over sunshine, miss seeing the seasons, and love to cook.
Any advice, Pros VS Cons, anything to look out for ?
Thank you in advance!

Is every editorial department as angry and rude as ours or is it like this across the industry?

I have over 20,000 unread emails in my inbox.

Idhar koi kuch post bhi karta hai ke sab ummun bukmun sumun hain?

Salam, I have re-made this group after the original one one disappeared. Welcome!

Yar need some activity here lads/lasses!!!

Salam folks! Honestly, getting to the semifinals is a big deal. But the outcome was expected… I’m rooting for the Kiwis!

Is this bowl active?

Hey anyone here based out of states?

Is anyone based in Boston? Would love to plan a meet up… the group in pretty small…there has to be more of us 😅

Anybody based in Dallas. I am wanting to connect with other professionals.

How many of you all are US based? Principal with Kearney here, based out of NY.

Anyone traveling to Pakistan any time soon?

Where are people @ in this lockdown?

I'm in UK

My heart really goes out for the women in Pakistan, the amount of harassment they face on daily basis. I wonder why that is, is the root cause the extreme level of gender segregation.