Salam- serious question. Where can good muslim girls these days find guys like Atib Siddique and Danial Qureshi, and what is the best way to approach them without coming off as desperate or such?

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First of all, it’s *Siddiqui lol.

And second of all, I’m not perfect by any means.
I have plenty of flaws too. Some “good Muslim girls” would also think I’m not the best guy or the best Muslim.

And third of all, nothing comes off as desperate if you own what you’re doing.
Shoot your shot, say Hi/Howdy, strike up a convo, just be you.

**Either it’ll work out or it won’t.
And if the person is as “good”as you think they are, they’ll probably treat you decent, whether interested or not.

Eid Mubarak.

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Noted Mr. Siddiqui lol

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Guys like that usually show up where purpose meets faith: professional spaces, Islamic events, community service, or content platforms like fishbowl. Show up where they show up.

As for approaching it’s less about “shooting your shot” and more about starting a meaningful, value aligned convo.

- Engage with their content
- Ask thoughtful questions and don’t put so much pressure on yourself that this guy needs to be the one
- Use a trusted mutual friend if possible

May Allah grant you someone who sees your worth and grows with you.

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This reply sounds like ChatGPT too

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Now they both know (and so does this bowl) that you’ll be in both their DMs… slaaaaaay qweeen /s 😇😅

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Aww may Allah swt make it easy for you.

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I know you saw my proposal ☝️. Let’s work on this RFP together

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Find them when they are dorky juniors in college and see the diamond in be rough and invest 😂

Honestly, I don’t understand how the dating world works in 2025. It’s just madness. Good luck!

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Too late for college 😪

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I’d just DM them and ask if they’re looking for spouse and if they like to have an initial chat.

I’m also available if you’re ok with a homeless and 450 credit score. DM me or send me a postage.

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Sign up to be a second wife. All the good men have been taken in round 1.

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How old are you? Your age determines the approach

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What do you like about them? No shade at them, just curious because you named some dudes but not everyone might have the context you do

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💯 agree with D2. Also love Danial's podcast.

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There seems to be a bunch of Deloitte people on thread so unrelated but thought I’d ask. I just signed an offer and wondering, is there only 2 working days for July 4th?

Yes I believe we are off Wed thru Friday that week. You are welcome!

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Im back after a 2yr hiatus, I know Atib but who thelly is Danial. I want to check him out in the least diddy way possible (I’m a guy)

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