"The one" is a cruel idea. There is definately more than 1 person you could spark chemistry with. Its the combination of being at the right place at the right time when you meet "The One"

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Fundamentally flawed statement. “The One” is not about who can make it to the altar. It is about who can make it with you for life (in a harmonious, respectful, ever evolving but positive relationship)

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Just my way of saying a long term commitment

Love you statement btw, youre right.

I know for a fact that if there was "some" finetuning to my exes (i.e. right timing of our lives) we would've made it to the altar.

Just my opinion anyway

I don't think "The One" necessarily means thats the only one person for you. I take it as it's the person someone thinks is right for them given their time spent together. Whereas soulmate would reference the couple "meant to be together"

I’m at year 10 of marriage, 15 of relationship, and can honestly say I’ve found that one that I’m willing to do anything to keep our partnership working. Others, I would get distracted or angry or defensive. But my partner, from day 1, was my partner in life and it was a very different feeling than regular relationships. I totally would have married other people prior, but knowing what I know now, I 100% wouldn’t at this time if something happened. I think it’s a reset of mentality.

The one isn’t a romantic connection like what the movies say. It’s this all encompassing commitment to all of life. At least with me. And I’ll teach my kids that they need to approach a partnership like that in their future.

The architect and the Oracle were both very clear; The One is not just an anomaly, it is part of the plan.

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