The silence after a great call hurts worse than rejection. I keep replaying what I said trying to find the “wrong” line. How do you mentally reset after being ghosted by what felt like a sure thing?

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If it helps, you probably didn't say anything wrong. Companies are just picky as hell right now and holding out for unicorns. Take a day or two to feel that disappointment, then dust yourself off and start applying again. Having something in front of you to focus on helps me stop ruing all the what ifs.

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Great way to look at it!

It's good to think it over and try to identify what might have gone wrong. It's also a good idea not to overthink it. Sometimes it doesn't matter how good the call was, something happened beyond your control and that's it. And in the current atmosphere, a lot of outfits are just hesitant to commit to anything.

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