The trauma of not surviving a terrible boss runs so deep! I find myself feeling inadequate all the time , less than, not worthy and sadly I have so many people supporting me, telling me the opposite but I don’t believe a word they say. It’s been since May10.2024… and I’m still stressed and sad and embarassed and angry…. Will it ever end

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Yes, it will end. When depends on how long you worked with her and how intense it was I can say that from personal experience. I only worked with someone for about nine months, but because I was on site with her, and everyone else was remote, I feel like I suffered, perhaps the most. Three of us quit without a job in the same amount of time due to her, but for some reason, it just impacted me so much more because I interacted with her in person. I also quit another job after many years due to a boss as well. I actually sought counseling due to that experience cause I worked there for such a long time. There are many free options for counseling including researching articles. I promise it will pass. It’s not a question of if it’s just a question of when. Leaving a job like this is almost like struggling with a death.

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