This past week I got an envelope hand delivered to me by a student I do not teach. In it was a trans pin she had bought for me, as well as a drawing and a letter of thanks.

Again, this is not my student, but I think this speaks to the power of visibility. Students need to know we are members of society. All I did was wear my own trans pin and “love is love” pin on my lanyard, and my trans flag mask (occasionally).

But for that student it was enough.

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I have a GSA, but I am discouraged from acknowledging my truth—that I’m a lesbian. Staff knows, but, theoretically, the students don’t. I was having our first meeting, and one of my kids asked, “How long have you been with your (exaggerated air quotes) roommate?” I again said that I can’t tell them how I fly, with which airline or even IF I fly. The same kid popped up with, “Have you MET you???” I thought about lying about it, but then these kids whom I am encouraging to find and live their truth, would see me as a liar. I just sighed and said, Thirty-eight years.”

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I absolutely love this 🌈 it brought tears to my eyes! I lead an equality club at the high school I’m at, I’m also a part of the community and every student and staff knows it whether they like it or not! Kudos to you🙌

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This is so amazing. Wow.

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