I was in the copy room one morning and a fellow teacher came up to me and whispered that her friend saw me on Grindr. I played it cool and she said "we have lives outside of school" but it was weird.

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I would not be offended. I would just say it’s a Dating app and I date.

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That's nothing. Wait till you SEE your students on Grindr. YIKES!! It's happened twice in the past week. BLOCK! BLOCK!

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Been there. The worst.

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I did feel weird about it but in the moment I laughed it off. But there were so many questions. Like, who is your friend, why do you know about this, just so much. This teacher is also LGBTQ+ but still didn't take away from that awkward feeling.

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