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Attraction is key, I don’t know if I’m that perfect of a human to ignore attraction. Then it would be intellect, personality, age should be around mine, and depending where you are in life and long term plans location is something purely dependent on your circumstances and what you’re willing to do to make it work.
For starters, obviously beauty catches the eye. But to keep a relationship interesting, definitely intellect is key. Also, common interests help a long way.
OP sometimes giving the too serious vibe too early is a turn off. Keeping the relationship interesting like EY1 said eventually takes you there.
Attraction does play a role but for me it’s less about the things that you can’t change - complexion, height, hair than about things you can change. Having a healthy life, taking good care of yourself and maintaining a good hygiene is a turn on. This is something we can change and it makes you an attractive person automatically. I went on dates where someone showed up on pajamas and without a shower and a body spray on. Then it doesn’t matter how funny and smart you are, if you show yourself as careless. It’s a turn off. Period.
ability to laugh and make me laugh
P1 it has to do with sense of humor.