“We really prioritize work-life balance.” Every recruiter says it, every firm promises it, and yet here I am, eating takeout at my desk for the third night this week. It’s not that I expected a 9-to-5, but the gap between what’s pitched and what’s real borders on gaslighting. The phrase has become so hollow it’s almost offensive. Maybe it’s time we stop pretending balance exists in private practice and call it what it is: managed burnout. What do you think, should we stop using “work-life balance” as a selling point altogether?

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I had no WLB in private practice. After I became a dad I went in house as a midlevel and my first in house role was less than 9-5 basically - it was incredible. My current role is pretty much 9-5, though some days I start at 8:30 or end at 4.

I have tons of PTO I can actually use as well and don’t have to worry about factoring in billables or getting inane calls from the partners while I’m away.

I travel for work sometimes which can call for long days, but typically there is some luxury in that too so there’s still balance. One day this week I was with my team from 7:45am until midnight, pretty much non-stop except for a couple short breaks, but 3 of those hours was at a winery so hardly anything to complain about.

The law firm model is incompatible with true WLB, especially when a “reasonable” billable expectation is like 1700-1800 hours which still sucks.

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WLB is mentioned when they want to pay you below market for nearly the same amount of work.

Damn I don’t even go into the office…

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