Why does emotional availability get treated as part of the job with no limits? I am expected to stay calm absorb stress and smooth tension throughout the day. That expectation never turns off. How do people set boundaries around this part of the role?

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I had to learn to let some things not be my problem. Not everything that happens around you requires you to fix it. When someone comes to you stressed about something that isn't urgent and isn't really your responsibility, it's okay to say "that sounds frustrating, have you talked to [whoever actually needs to handle it]?" Redirect when you can, absorb when you can't.

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