Why is ex bf posting a lot on social media (fb statues & stories) after the breakup but he never post stories during the relationship? Is he trying to get my attention or prove he’s better off?

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I think the real question is why do you care? I know it is easier said than done, but love your life and move on.

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You said right there, your goals no longer align....regardless of whatever he posts now. Move on.

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Def either trying to get your attention or catch someone else’s

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My ex did this exact thing. I never looked at any of his stories or liked any of his posts. This got him riled up and he ended up reaching out to me... there’s a chance he could be trying to make you jealous.

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Because guys don’t get women by sitting at a bar and blinking slow at someone and them coming over and buying them a drink. WE HAVE TO COME GET YOU!

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Get your attention. Unfriend him on all social media and that will drive him crazy.

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Or.... he’s hurting and posting stuff is a distraction. Just saying - nothing is always what it seems.

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Love your life!

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I'd guess they're at trying to get back out in life. To feel part of something aka the social media life. I used to post before my relationship and once I was in one, I didn't feel a need to post anymore. I didn't feel the 'need' to be out there anymore? Just my thought.

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He might just have a lot more free time than normal...

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